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VICTIM OFFENDER CONFERENCING

IN THE SCHOOLS

“Restorative Justice through Dialogue”

What is it?

Victim Offender Conferencing in the schools is a process which provides interested victims the opportunity to meet the offender in a safe and structured setting, with the goal of holding the offender directly accountable for their behavior.  With the assistance of a trained facilitator, the victim is able to let the offender know how the crime affected him or her, to receive the answers to the questions they may have, and to be directly involved in developing a restitution plan.  The offender is able to take direct responsibility for their behavior, to learn the full impact of what they did, and to develop a plan for making amends to the person(s) they violated.

Why Did The School Refer My Child to Restorative Justice?

The school has determined that your child is either a victim or an offender in an incident that happened at school.  In some situations, both parties can be victims and offenders, such as a physical fight that engages both students equally.  In most situations, the school refers the case for a victim offender conference as an alternative to school disciplinary action

The school has opted to provide an opportunity for students to resolve their issues themselves, with support from facilitators and family members. When students are victimized they and their parents have this opportunity to get their questions answered and describe how they were affected.  When offenders have to face their victims and realize the harm they have done to others they can fully take responsibility for their action.  The school has recognized the value of conferencing and believes it will be beneficial for your child.

What Do We Do In A Victim Offender Conference (VOC)?

Facilitators from Barron County Restorative Justice Programs, Inc. set up the location and times of the conference with the victim(s) and offender(s).  Generally, facilitators will schedule a pre-conference with an offender one hour prior to the conference time.  The pre-conference with the victim is approximately 30 minutes prior to the conference.  This gives the facilitators ample time to meet with each party, address the concerns of the victims, offenders, and their parents, and discuss what happened and what they will be saying to the other party during the conference.  If an offender expresses no remorse during the initial contact or during the pre-conference, the facilitator will cancel the conference and refer the case back to the school.  Facilitators are trained and experienced and will not allow a victim to be re-victimized by meeting with an offender who has no remorse.  Honesty and sincerity are expectations of all participants. 

After all parties have had a pre-conference with facilitators, they will be gathered together for the victim offender conference.  The conference is structured and there are rules, such as:  No foul language, no interrupting while another is speaking, to name two of them.  The victim determines who will speak first.  The victim will tell what happened to them, how they felt about it, how they are feeling now, and what they need from the offender in order to repair the harm that was done to them.  The offender will tell what happened, why they did it, how they felt doing it, and how they feel now.  Offenders are encouraged to take responsibility for their actions and express remorse for what they have done. 

After both the victim and offender have finished speaking, the victim’s family members will be invited to speak, followed by the offender’s family members.  Once everyone has had a chance to speak, participants can ask questions.  The conference will continue until the victim is satisfied.  Verbal and written agreements between the victim and the offender are often decided during the conference.  The purpose of the agreement is to satisfy the victim, to assure their future safety, and to recover their losses, if any. 

What Happens If I Don’t Want My Child To Participate?

The school and, in some cases, the police will decide how to proceed.  For offenders this often means detention, suspension, or a citation.  For victims, there is no punitive action taken.