“Telling my story is a way for me to cope with the pain and to go forward with my life.” — VIP Victim Speaker
Eight times a year, this program fills the UWBC Fine Arts auditorium with people who listen to stories about drunk-driving fatalities. These are not easy stories to hear, given the deep pain and loss caused by the death of a loved one. But given the courage and strength that is evident in each speaker who tells his or her story, the audience knows that there is a human side to the consequences of all crimes, especially vehicular crimes, that involve alcohol. Rather than being shocked by tragedies, those who listen are moved by tragedies in a way that draws them into a community that cares about the wellbeing of every member. This approach builds a deeper motivation on anyone’s part to make responsible choices based on the good of others.
“I have come to the final realization that drinking and driving hurts more than just me. It can hurt innocent bystanders, family, or my future children. It can also hurt myself which affects people around me.” — court-ordered attendee
Three groups are in the audience:
- Court-ordered adult OWI offenders
- Driver Education Students
- Parents of those students
This event is free, and open to the public. You must be 15 or older to attend.
“You think it won’t happen to you.” This is a common theme that comes up from the speakers and is echoed by driver ed students during a debrief time at the end of the panel time. One student wrote this as a post-panel reflection: “It has completely moved me. I have heard stories about drunk driving, but these showed me the ugly side of it and how huge the consequences can be.” Some of the stories are by offenders who have had to do prison time for their offense. These can be powerful wake-up calls to teens who are just facing new life-situations. A parent had this to say: “I am thankful that my son who is a new driver has witnessed these stories. It emphasizes the responsibilities that comes with driving.”
“Do not drink and drive!” – driver ed student
How do we determine who speaks on the panel?
Anyone is who has been a victim of drunk driving is welcome to speak on our panel. We do an interviewing process to help ensure the victim is emotionally ready to participate and is an appropriate panelist. Most victims find that speaking on the panel is a valuable experience in their own journeys of healing. Contact Barron County Restorative Justice Programs (715- 736-0940) if you are interested in having the opportunity to be a panelist.
